I Need Some Good Sad Songs?

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QUESTION from Shaddy:

I need some sad sad songs? I got rejected and im tired of listening to the
same old songs; so anyone anything?

ANSWER from CigarPlayer:

Hey girl! I love listening to sad songs when I'm down too.
Valentines Day is always looked upon as a happy day. However,
a lot of people have lost a lover and this is also a sad day
for them. Sad songs can help heal.

My favorite song site is http://www.elyrics.net
It has all the sad song lyrics for you to read while
listening to them online.

Remember by Josh Groban
http://www.elyrics.net/read/j/josh-groba…

Seperate Ways by Journey
http://www.elyrics.net/read/j/journey-ly…

Lights by Journey
http://www.elyrics.net/read/j/journey-ly…

Take My Breath Away by Berlin
http://www.elyrics.net/read/b/berlin-lyr…

Tonight by Phil Collins
http://www.elyrics.net/read/g/genesis-ly…

When Doves Cry by Prince
http://www.elyrics.net/read/p/prince-lyr…

The One That Got Away by Pink
http://www.elyrics.net/read/p/pink-lyric…

What's Up Lonely by Kelly Clarkson
http://www.elyrics.net/read/k/kelly-clar…

I'm old school but, read the lyrics to the above songs
and try to listen/feel them in your heart & soul. Broaden your horizons.
This will also help you forget the pain in your heart.

Peace.
CigarPlayer

How can I discreetly not drink around people who are drinking?

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Question from Jessy:

How can I discreetly not drink around people who are drinking?

Yeah, It's not that I care what people think, it's just that it gets annoying
because people treat you differently when you don't drink and they're always
trying to get you to have a drink!!

I really don't like to drink alcohol as it really doesn't seem to agree with my
body and rather than giving me a buzz, it tends to make me feel like crap.
I do, however, enjoy social situations that are based around drinking, such as
going to clubs, bars and parties. I have no problem being sober around drunk
people etc., I still enjoy myself fine and have fun, but people can tend to get
on my case about not drinking. It's not like I want to pretend I'm drinking so
people will think I'm "cool", but I don't want to put a downer on things always
saying, "Oh, I don't drink." I don't like to drink soft drinks either, so I
can't really just pretend a coke is a rum and coke. I also want to know what
to do if I guy sends me a drink, and I am interested, I just don't want the
drink! And what about when everyone at the table is doing shots? I don't want
to look like the boring teetotaler, because I'm not like that, I just don't drink!

If anyone has any suggestions on how I can deal with this, that would be great!

ANSWER from CigarPlayer:

Piece of cake girl. Check this out:

1. Clubs: Just ask for virgin versions of famous drinks.

Virgin Bloody Mary is tomato juice (V8) without the Vodka
Virgin Strawberry Daiquiri is without rum.
Virgin Rum & Coke is Root beer
Virgin Shot is Root beer or Jello cube
Or try Non-alcoholic beverage website like this one for more choices: http://bit.ly/6GQzjU

2. House Parties: Just drink kool-aid ice cubes or Jell-O cubes.
That's because you don't drink soda. Also, bring your own drink
mixes for non-alcoholic drinks (see website link). This way
your friends don't have to fuss and you have fun mixing them.

3. Friends: At the end of the day they should respect your wishes and just have fun.
In high school I did not drink and just substituted Root Beer a lot.

Have fun. Peace.

- CigarPlayer