Sunday, January 24, 2010
QUESTION from Shaddy:
I need some sad sad songs? I got rejected and im tired of listening to the
same old songs; so anyone anything?
ANSWER from CigarPlayer:
Hey girl! I love listening to sad songs when I'm down too.
Valentines Day is always looked upon as a happy day. However,
a lot of people have lost a lover and this is also a sad day
for them. Sad songs can help heal.
My favorite song site is http://www.elyrics.net
It has all the sad song lyrics for you to read while
listening to them online.
Remember by Josh Groban
Seperate Ways by Journey
Lights by Journey
Take My Breath Away by Berlin
Tonight by Phil Collins
When Doves Cry by Prince
The One That Got Away by Pink
What's Up Lonely by Kelly Clarkson
I'm old school but, read the lyrics to the above songs
and try to listen/feel them in your heart & soul. Broaden your horizons.
This will also help you forget the pain in your heart.
Monday, January 11, 2010
Question from Jessy:
How can I discreetly not drink around people who are drinking?
Yeah, It's not that I care what people think, it's just that it gets annoying
because people treat you differently when you don't drink and they're always
trying to get you to have a drink!!
I really don't like to drink alcohol as it really doesn't seem to agree with my
body and rather than giving me a buzz, it tends to make me feel like crap.
I do, however, enjoy social situations that are based around drinking, such as
going to clubs, bars and parties. I have no problem being sober around drunk
people etc., I still enjoy myself fine and have fun, but people can tend to get
on my case about not drinking. It's not like I want to pretend I'm drinking so
people will think I'm "cool", but I don't want to put a downer on things always
saying, "Oh, I don't drink." I don't like to drink soft drinks either, so I
can't really just pretend a coke is a rum and coke. I also want to know what
to do if I guy sends me a drink, and I am interested, I just don't want the
drink! And what about when everyone at the table is doing shots? I don't want
to look like the boring teetotaler, because I'm not like that, I just don't drink!
If anyone has any suggestions on how I can deal with this, that would be great!
ANSWER from CigarPlayer:
Piece of cake girl. Check this out:
1. Clubs: Just ask for virgin versions of famous drinks.
Virgin Bloody Mary is tomato juice (V8) without the Vodka
Virgin Strawberry Daiquiri is without rum.
Virgin Rum & Coke is Root beer
Virgin Shot is Root beer or Jello cube
Or try Non-alcoholic beverage website like this one for more choices: http://bit.ly/6GQzjU
2. House Parties: Just drink kool-aid ice cubes or Jell-O cubes.
That's because you don't drink soda. Also, bring your own drink
mixes for non-alcoholic drinks (see website link). This way
your friends don't have to fuss and you have fun mixing them.
3. Friends: At the end of the day they should respect your wishes and just have fun.
In high school I did not drink and just substituted Root Beer a lot.
Have fun. Peace.